back to Nov 2006

It seems I've been retired of writing blog in English... I always thought of waiting for being hit by special inspirations before I started writing, especially in English - with the assumption that inspiration could make up the shortage of language. Since it looks that it's not happening, I will just write.

I will write about my friends again, a different group of friends from my past entries in here. I think it might be the virtue of a ture friendship that you don't plan for anything. Before you realise, you are already very close friends.

Speaking of this, I want to mention what I believe in relationship that if you love a person, you won't have a reason. If you have reasons, eg you love him/her because he/she is rich, because he/she is successful, because he/she is smart, because he/she is good-looking and has a killer sexy body, you love the things they have more than the persons who they really are.

I guess I'm trying to say feelings. When it comes to friendship and relationship, feelings speak lounder than logic, at least it is what it's supposed to be.

Back to this group, I always have so much fun when I hang out with them. They are all intelligent, beautiful and handsome, and more importantly, funny.

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PS. It was an unfinished blog I started on Nov 2006 and didn't get to finish. This group of friends are still close, except one who has left the group due to break-ups with someone in the group. I don't want to clarify right and wrong in the failure of this relationship because there's none. At the time when it happened, our judgement as their friends might have been influenced by certain emotions. But now, after so many years, it's not as challenging as it was to be able to see the big picture that as to, if not all, the most of failed relationship, the reason is as simple as that it just doesn't fit. No one is right or wrong, no one is good or bad. They hurt, they lie, they cheat, they treat partners badly... all because they think logically, emotionally or subconsciously that it doesn't fit. However, as "bad" as she was when she left the group, she was the very one who inspired me blogging in English during those years when she was around. She is smart and a good writer. I liked reading what she wrote and was always inspired by. I think the intention of this entry was to write about her.